3 Design Rules I Break (and One I Never Do)
While I don’t strictly adhere to design rules in a space, there are three design principles I enjoy breaking and one that I always follow. Design rules exist for a reason—they create structure, balance, and a sense of order. But some of the most beautiful, memorable spaces come from knowing exactly which rules to break… and how to break them well. Over the years, I’ve learned that pushing boundaries is where the magic happens. That said, there’s one rule I never compromise on. Let’s start with the fun part—the rules I love to break.
Always Paint the Ceiling White — Not in My World
The ceiling—often called the “fifth wall”—is one of the most overlooked opportunities in a space.
While white ceilings are safe and traditional, they can also feel like a missed opportunity. I love using color, texture, or even wallpaper overhead to create depth and drama. A soft tonal ceiling can make a room feel enveloping and cozy, while a darker ceiling can add sophistication and intimacy.
Instead of defaulting to white, I ask: What does this room need? Sometimes the answer is subtle. Other times, it’s bold and unforgettable.
Avoid Large Patterns in Small Spaces — I Do the Opposite
This is one of my favorite rules to break. There’s a common belief that small spaces require small patterns to avoid overwhelming the room. But in reality, large-scale patterns can make a small space feel intentional, layered, and even larger. Think of a powder room wrapped in a bold floral or a jewel-box entry with a dramatic geometric print. These spaces become moments—unexpected, curated, and full of personality. Small rooms are the perfect place to take risks. They’re contained, impactful, and unforgettable when done right.
Don’t Mix Metals— Please Do
Gone are the days of matching every metal finish perfectly. Mixing metals brings warmth, depth, and a collected feel to a space. I often combine brass, polished nickel, matte black, and even antique finishes to create contrast and interest. The key is balance—repeat each finish at least twice so it feels intentional, not accidental. When done well, mixing metals makes a space feel curated rather than cookie-cutter.
The One Rule I Never Break: Measure Everything
While I’m happy to bend creative rules, this is one I never, ever ignore. Every space. Every piece of furniture. Every doorway, hallway, and ceiling height—I measure it all. Because no matter how beautiful a piece is, it simply doesn’t work if it doesn’t fit.
Proper measuring ensures:
Furniture is scaled correctly for the room
Traffic flow feels natural and comfortable
Pieces can actually be delivered and installed without issue
It’s the foundation that allows creativity to shine without costly mistakes.
Final Thoughts
Great design isn’t about following every rule—it’s about understanding them deeply enough to know when to break them. So paint the ceiling. Go bold in small spaces. Mix your metals with confidence.
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